Difficult person to deal with?
Chloe’s relationship clarity tool will help you.
It probably feels as though you’ve tried everything with this difficult person you’re struggling with, but nothing has worked. Whenever you find yourself feeling stuck in your interactions with someone, or you wish that they would change something about their behaviour or manner, this is a great tool to use. It will give you insights and information that you didn’t have before.
To use it, you will need a blank piece of paper and it will take you only a matter of minutes to work through it.
This tool helps us to separate out the facts of the situation from the parts we have made up. It also encourages us to be honest about the impact we are allowing the person to have on us. Furthermore, it invites us to consider the impact we are having on them, and points us to the parts of the situation that are within our control.
When we use this tool, it helps us to refocus our time and energy where it is most needed. When we don’t use it, we generally keep trying everything we have already tried and continue our struggle with the person or, alternatively, we avoid them entirely. To try it for yourself, simply put your details in the box below and it will be sent immediately to your inbox.
In the meantime, if you would like further support to effectively navigate conflict and relationship difficulty, I’d be delighted to hear about your experiences and explore with you whether I can help you to achieve the outcomes you want, so please do get in touch with me.
Wishing you my best,
Chloe O’Sullivan BSc (Econ) Hons MBA
Founder of War to Peace® and CEO of Halcyon Global