At its heart, War to Peace® is about moving from a state of inner conflict (at War or in the Red) to a place of clarity, wisdom and ease (at Peace or in the Green).
When we’re in the Red, it can feel powerful—righteous, even. We might band together with others in blame or push through with aggression to get results. And sometimes, it works. But it’s short-term. The cost? Disconnection, exhaustion, and a sense that we’ve moved away from who we really are.
Being in the Green might sound soft or idealistic, but it’s far from it. It’s the space where radical candour happens—where we can be honest, direct, and genuinely ourselves without sacrificing care for others. It’s the way we’d talk to our best friend, naturally at ease and unguarded, and it’s where our toughest relationships start to shift for the better.
But why should you be the one to do the work of moving from Red to Green when they are the problem? Because you’re suffering. It’s costing you to stay in the Red. And it’s infecting the people around you. It makes no sense to continue to suffer until they change, when you have the power to end your suffering immediately.
So, ask yourself: What’s it costing you to stay in the Red? And what would happen if you chose Green, even just for a moment? What might change in your relationships, your work, and your peace of mind?
You have the power to create the change you’re waiting for. And if you could use a hand, I’d be glad to help, so do get in touch.
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